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Module 14 of 15 · Professional practice

Working with the care team, not around it

Most of your work happens beside nurses, doctors, social workers, chaplains and aides who carry legal and clinical responsibility you do not. This module shows you who they are, how they talk to each other, and how to be the outside helper they are glad to see.

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By the end you can

  • Name the roles on a hospice, hospital, palliative care and nursing-home team, and say what each one is responsible for.
  • Describe your role to a clinician in one honest sentence that makes no clinical claim.
  • Pass a concern to the team with a four-part, non-clinical hand-off (SBAR-lite) and explain why it leaves out a clinical assessment.
  • Choose the right channel for a safety, symptom, conflict or suspected-neglect concern, and know when to step back.
  • Draft a one-page “How I work” sheet you can hand to a care team.

Scope check for this module

A doula may

  • Introduce yourself to the team, with the family’s agreement, and say plainly what you do and do not do.
  • Tell the team (or help the family tell the team) what you saw, when, and what the family is asking for.
  • Help the family prepare questions for a nurse visit or a family meeting.
  • Encourage the family to use the hospice on-call line, the team’s own escalation path, or its grievance process.
  • Call 911 in an emergency, and report suspected abuse or neglect to the proper agency.
  • Keep brief, factual notes the family can see.

Hand to the care team

  • Any medication question, dose change, or “is this normal?” about a symptom.
  • Clinical assessment, prognosis (“how long?”), and the meaning of test results.
  • Changes to the plan of care, level of care, or equipment.
  • Interpreting medical conversations in another language (a qualified interpreter).
  • Pronouncing death and what happens clinically after it.
  • Decisions the person or their legal representative makes with the clinician.

1. Who is on the team, and what each person owns

A care team is the group of professionals responsible for a person’s care in one setting. In US hospice, federal rules call it the interdisciplinary group (IDG, often spoken of as the IDT, interdisciplinary team). Those rules, the Medicare Conditions of Participation (CoPs), require the group to include at least a doctor of medicine or osteopathy, a registered nurse, a social worker (or a marriage and family therapist or mental health counselor), and a pastoral or other counselor. The hospice must also name one registered nurse in the group to coordinate each person’s care. That nurse, usually called the RN case manager, is the most important name to learn.

Medicare’s own booklet for families lists who else may be on a hospice team: nurses or nurse practitioners, counselors, social workers, pharmacists, physical and occupational therapists, speech-language pathologists, hospice aides, homemakers and volunteers, with the patient and family themselves named as part of the team. It also says a hospice nurse and doctor are on call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

RoleWhat they are responsible forWhat to bring them
RN case managerCoordinates the plan of care, assesses the person, teaches the family, and is the first call for symptoms.What you saw and when; the family’s questions about comfort.
Hospice medical director and hospice physiciansWith the attending physician, responsible for managing the illness and symptoms. The medical director supervises the hospice’s physicians.Nothing directly. Your concerns reach them through the nurse.
Attending physician or practitionerThe person’s own chosen doctor, nurse practitioner or physician assistant, who may stay involved.Only through the family, unless the family asks you to join a visit.
Nurse practitioner (NP)An advanced-practice nurse who can assess, diagnose and prescribe within state law.As for the nurse.
Social workerEmotional, family and practical needs: caregiver strain, money worries, housing, paperwork, family conflict.Signs that the family is overwhelmed, in conflict, or short of help.
Chaplain or spiritual counselorAssesses spiritual needs and offers support that fits the family’s own beliefs; the hospice must make reasonable efforts to bring in the family’s own clergy.The family’s wish to see, or not see, a chaplain; rituals that matter to them.
Hospice aideHands-on personal care (bathing, turning, grooming), assigned and supervised by a registered nurse, and reports changes to the nurse.Practical coordination: visit times, what the person likes.
Volunteer coordinatorRecruits, trains and supervises hospice volunteers, who must work in defined roles under a designated hospice employee.If you volunteer for that hospice, everything about your role goes here first.
Bereavement coordinatorRuns the hospice’s bereavement program, which must be available to the family for up to a year after the death.Who in the family may need extra grief support.
PharmacistMay review medicines for effects and interactions, often behind the scenes; hospices with their own inpatient unit must have pharmacist services there.Nothing directly. Medication questions go to the nurse.
Therapists (physical, occupational, speech)Movement, safety, equipment, swallowing and communication.Observations about falls, transfers or swallowing, passed to the nurse.

How the team changes by setting

  • Home hospice. The hospice team visits. The family does the hour-to-hour caregiving. The on-call line is the lifeline.
  • Nursing home. The facility has its own care-plan team: by federal rule, at least the attending physician, a registered nurse and a nurse aide responsible for the resident, and a member of food and nutrition staff, with the resident and their representative taking part where practicable. When a resident is also on hospice, the hospice and the facility must have a written agreement covering how they communicate, and the hospice keeps responsibility for the hospice plan of care. That means two teams, and you need to know which one to call about what.
  • Hospital. Bedside nurse, charge nurse (who runs the unit on that shift), a hospitalist or attending physician, a case manager or discharge planner, a chaplain, and sometimes a palliative care consult team. That is a specialist interdisciplinary team called in to help with symptoms and hard decisions alongside the other doctors. National palliative care guidelines describe this team-based approach for anyone with serious illness, in any setting.
  • Clinic. A specialist or primary care clinician, clinic nurses, and often a social worker or navigator.

For the deeper map of each setting, see Module 3 and the health-system pages.

2. Introducing yourself, and how teams really talk

One honest sentence

Clinicians trust the helper whose role they understand in ten seconds. Practise a single sentence that says who hired you, what you do, and what you leave to them. Examples (adapt to your own work; these are not scripts):

  • “I’m Ana, the family’s end-of-life doula. I’m non-clinical: I help with presence, planning conversations and vigil support, and anything medical comes straight to you.”
  • “I’m a volunteer vigil companion with the hospice. I sit with him so he isn’t alone, and I call the nurse for anything about his comfort.”

Avoid titles that sound clinical or official. A training certificate tells a nurse nothing about what you will do, and a 2025 practice article notes that no national certification or licensure exists for end-of-life doulas. Say what you do.

The meeting you are not in

Hospice rules require the IDG to review and update each person’s plan of care as often as the person’s condition requires, and at least every 15 calendar days. That review usually happens in a team meeting. A doula the family hired privately is normally not there, and should not expect to be. The meeting is where clinical responsibility is exercised, and you do not carry that.

So how does what you notice reach the team? In order of preference:

  1. Through the family. The family is the team’s partner in the plan of care; the rules say the plan is built with the patient or representative and the primary caregiver. Help them notice, write down and say it.
  2. Through you, with consent and an agreed channel. If the person (or their representative) agrees, and the RN case manager agrees how they want to hear from you (a call to the on-call line, a note left in the home folder, a word at the next visit), you can pass things on directly.
  3. Never by writing in the hospice’s clinical record, calling a doctor’s cell phone, or going to someone above the nurse without trying the nurse first, unless it is an emergency or a safety report.

What the team can tell you

Under HIPAA, the federal health privacy rule, a provider may share relevant information with family, friends or others involved in a person’s care when the person agrees or does not object, or, if they cannot say, when the provider judges it is in their interest. The rule does not require the team to share with you. Expect the nurse to check with the person or family before talking to you, and thank them for it. Module 13 covers your own privacy duties.

3. Hand-offs: SBAR, and the doula’s SBAR-lite

A hand-off is the moment responsibility for noticing or acting passes from one person to another: you telling the nurse, the family telling you what happened overnight, you telling the next vigil companion. Most hand-off failures are vague messages, not bad intent.

Healthcare teams use a structure called SBAR: Situation, Background, Assessment, Recommendation. The Institute for Healthcare Improvement credits Michael Leonard, MD, with Doug Bonacum and Suzanne Graham at Kaiser Permanente of Colorado, with developing the technique. The federal Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality (AHRQ) teaches it in its TeamSTEPPS teamwork program, and notes that the R can stand for Recommendation or Request.

The “A” is the problem for a doula. In SBAR, Assessment means the speaker’s analysis of what is going on: a clinical judgment. You are not trained or permitted to make one, and offering one (“I think she’s in pain”, “I think it’s the new pill”) can steer a busy clinician wrong. So use a non-clinical version:

Clinical SBARDoula SBAR-liteExample
SituationWhat I saw (or heard), in plain words“He’s been calling out and pulling at the sheets.”
BackgroundSince when, and anything that changed“It started about two hours ago. He was quiet this morning.”
AssessmentWhat the family says (their words, not your judgment)“His daughter says this isn’t like him and she’s frightened.”
RecommendationWhat I am asking (a request, not a treatment)“Could someone call her back or come out to see him?”

Notice what is missing: no diagnosis, no guess at the cause, no suggestion of a medicine or dose. The request is for the clinician’s attention, which is exactly what you can legitimately ask for.

Receiving a hand-off

  • Ask the family or the previous companion: What happened since I was last here? Has the nurse been? Were there any new instructions? Who do we call tonight, and on what number?
  • Repeat back what you heard (“So the nurse said to call the on-call line if the breathing changes. Is that right?”). This is not re-teaching the clinical instruction; it is checking you heard the family right.
  • If an instruction is clinical and unclear, the fix is a call to the nurse, not your best interpretation.

4. Escalating a concern, and disagreeing well

To escalate is to move a concern to someone with more authority or urgency when the first route did not work or the risk is high. Match the channel to the concern:

ConcernFirst channelIf that does not work, or it is serious
Emergency: someone is hurt, in danger, or the family is unsure of the plan911Then tell the hospice or facility.
Symptom: distress, breathing change, agitation, a fallThe family calls the hospice on-call line (or the facility nurse); you can help them make the call with SBAR-liteCall back and say plainly that the problem continues; ask for a visit.
Conflict within the family, or between family and teamSocial worker or RN case managerThe clinical manager; for a hospital, a patient relations or patient advocate office.
Quality of care: a missed visit, a rude or rough workerThe family raises it with the RN case managerThe hospice’s grievance process. Patients have a right under the CoPs to voice grievances without reprisal.
Suspected abuse, neglect or exploitation911 if anyone is in immediate dangerAdult Protective Services in the state where the person lives; in a nursing home or assisted living, the long-term care ombudsman program can also act for the resident.

Two notes on the last row. Hospices must make sure their own staff report alleged abuse or neglect to the hospice administrator right away and investigate it; the facility-hospice agreement adds reporting duties between them. Whether you are a legally mandated reporter depends on your state and your role, so look up your state’s rule before you start working, not in the moment. The US Department of Justice’s Elder Justice pages point to each state’s Adult Protective Services and the Eldercare Locator (1-800-677-1116). A suicide risk is always a 988 or 911 call.

The chain of command

Every organization has a chain of command: the order in which concerns move up. In hospice it usually runs from the RN case manager to a clinical manager or director of nursing, then to the administrator or medical director. In a hospital it runs from the bedside nurse to the charge nurse, the nurse manager and the attending physician. Ask for the names at the start, when nothing is wrong. Skipping steps burns trust; using them in order earns it.

Disagreeing respectfully

  • Lead with what you saw, not a verdict: “I’m worried because she has been awake and crying since midnight.”
  • Ask, do not instruct: “Can you help me understand the plan for nights like this?”
  • Keep the person at the centre: “She told me last week that being alert matters more to her than anything.” (That is her value, which the team needs; it is not your clinical opinion.)
  • Put it where it belongs: if the family disagrees with a clinical decision, your job is to help them say so to the clinician, or ask for a family meeting, not to argue the clinical point for them.

When to step back. The clinical team owns clinical decisions, and the person (or their legal representative) owns the choice among the options offered. If a concern has been heard, answered, and still is not the answer you would choose, and nobody is unsafe, let it rest. Your presence is more useful than your being right. If you believe someone is unsafe, use the escalation table; that is not overstepping.

5. Staying in your lane while being useful

Most scope mistakes start with a kind request from a tired family. Here are twelve you will meet, and what a care team would want from you.

The family asks me…The team would want me to…
“Can you give her another dose of the pain medicine?”Decline to give or advise on any dose. Help them call the on-call nurse now, and note the time and what they saw.
“How long does he have?”Say honestly that you cannot tell, and help them ask the nurse or doctor, who may give a range.
“Should we stop the tube feeding?”Help them write down their questions and ask for a conversation or family meeting with the clinician.
“Can you read her chart and tell us what it means?”Decline. Help the person or their representative ask the team to explain it.
“Tell the aide she’s doing it wrong.”Encourage them to raise it with the RN case manager, who supervises aides; offer to help them word it.
“Can you witness her advance directive?”Check the form’s own instructions (states set witness rules and some restrict who may sign) and point them to the advance directives page. Give no legal advice.
“Can you stay tonight so we can sleep?”If it is in your agreement, yes. Make sure the family has told the team, and that you know the on-call number and the plan for the death.
“Don’t tell the nurse about the herbal drops we’re giving.”Say you will not keep secrets that could affect safety, and encourage them to tell the nurse. Give no view on the drops.
“Explain the new medication schedule to my brother.”Ask the nurse to teach him. You can help him write down his questions.
“He’s stopped breathing, call 911!”Follow the plan the family made with the hospice for this moment. If there is no plan, or anyone is unsure, call 911.
“We don’t want the chaplain.” (or “We want our own priest.”)Help them tell the team. Hospice spiritual care is offered according to the family’s acceptance, and the hospice must make reasonable efforts to bring in their own clergy.
“You speak Spanish. Can you interpret for Grandma with the doctor?”Decline to interpret medical conversations. Ask the team for a qualified interpreter.

Interpreters, aides and spiritual care

Interpreters. Under the federal civil rights rule for health programs (Section 1557 of the Affordable Care Act), covered entities such as hospitals must offer a qualified interpreter when one is needed. As HHS described that rule in December 2024, they must not rely on an accompanying adult except in narrow cases, or on a minor child except briefly in an emergency. Check current HHS guidance, as rules can change. Even if you are fluent, a medical interpreter is trained to render everything accurately and neutrally. Your job is to make sure the family knows to ask for one.

Aides. Hospice aides are trained, assigned and supervised by a registered nurse, and their duties include hands-on personal care and help with medications the person ordinarily takes themselves. You are not an aide. Do not take over their tasks. Do learn their names and schedule; they often see the person more than anyone else on the team.

Spiritual care. A chaplain is a trained professional, not a competitor. If the family has spiritual needs beyond what you offer, the chaplain is the hand-off. Module 8 goes deeper.

Etiquette by setting

  • Homes: you are a guest of the family. When the nurse arrives, offer the room: “I’ll step out unless you’d like me to stay.” Let the person decide.
  • Hospitals: introduce yourself to the bedside nurse each shift; step out for exams and procedures; follow infection-control signs; never touch equipment or alarms.
  • Facilities: sign in, learn the nurse’s station, and ask which team (facility or hospice) to call about what.

Documentation the team will trust

Your notes belong to you and the family, not the medical record. Make them useful: dated and timed, observed facts separated from what someone told you (“Daughter reports…”), no clinical words (write “breathing sounded wet”, not “terminal secretions”), and what you passed on, to whom, and when. A note that says “patient in pain, needs more morphine” teaches a nurse not to trust you.

Feedback loops

Close the loop after a hand-off: did the nurse call back, and did the family understand? After a death, if the team is open to it, ask: “What could I have done to make your work easier?” Then use the answer.

6. What teams worry about, and how trust is earned

Evidence here is thin and mostly descriptive. A 2025 “tips” article, written largely by doula practitioners with palliative care clinicians, argues that doulas can be good team partners and stresses that doula support is not meant to replace existing services. A small 2026 qualitative study of 14 palliative care staff in Iran heard concerns including role confusion, a doula interfering in doctors’ work, and doulas being seen as competitors. Neither shows outcomes, and a study abroad may not match your setting, but the worries will sound familiar:

What a team may worry aboutHow you answer it, over time
PrivacyKeep confidences, share only with consent, and never post or talk about clients.
Scope creepSay no to clinical tasks every time, in front of the family, and send them to the nurse.
Contradicting ordersNever comment on medicines or treatments; send questions to the source.
Unrealistic promises to familiesPromise presence, not outcomes (“a peaceful death”, “at home no matter what”).
ConflictBring disagreements to the right person, calmly, with what you saw.
Unclear liabilityPut your role, limits and contact details in writing, and be clear about who engaged you.

Trust grows in small, repeated moments: calling the nurse instead of guessing, an accurate note, a family meeting where you helped the family speak and then stayed quiet.

Your one-page “How I work” sheet

A short written sheet, handed to the RN case manager or charge nurse (with the family’s agreement), answers most of a team’s questions before they are asked. Include: your name and how to reach you; who engaged you (the family, or the organization if you are its volunteer or staff); what you do; what you never do (medications, clinical advice, interpreting, pronouncing death); how you will pass on concerns and to whom; that you keep the person’s information private and share only with consent; and when you are usually present.

You will pull this into your capstone portfolio in the next module.

If you are a health system or hospice thinking about a doula or vigil-companion role, see In the health system and the playbook for a health system. For how these hand-offs look in practice, read the six example scenarios. For the money side, how doulas actually get paid is plain about what does and does not exist.

Case: “Tell the nurse to give her more”

You are the privately engaged doula for Ruth, 88, on home hospice with advanced lung disease. It is 9 p.m. Her son Daniel has been caring for her for three weeks and is exhausted. Ruth is restless and short of breath. Daniel says, “The nurse listens to you. Call her and tell her to double the morphine. She’s suffering.” He hands you his phone with the hospice on-call number already dialled. You have Ruth’s and Daniel’s agreement, from your first visit, to speak with the hospice about her comfort.

What would you do first? Decide, write a sentence in the box below, then open the discussion.

Discussion: one reasonable path, and the traps

In scope: making sure the nurse hears about Ruth’s distress quickly and clearly. The best version has Daniel on the call, because he is her caregiver and the plan of care is built with him. You might say: “Let’s call together. You tell her what you’re seeing, and I’ll help if you want me to.” If he asks you to speak, use SBAR-lite: “Ruth is restless and breathing fast (what I saw), since about 7 p.m. (since when). Daniel says she seems to be suffering and he’s frightened (what the family says). We’re asking for help with her comfort tonight, and Daniel would like to talk about the medicine with you (what I am asking).”

The trap: passing on “double the morphine” as your request, or softening it into “I think she needs more.” Either one turns you into someone making a medication recommendation. The dose is the clinician’s decision, made with Ruth or Daniel after the nurse assesses her. It is not yours to relay as a demand or to endorse.

Also in scope: staying with Ruth, offering comfort measures the team has taught the family (a fan, positioning, a calm voice), and afterwards writing a short factual note of the time, what you saw and what the nurse said. If the nurse’s plan does not ease Ruth and Daniel is still distressed, call back and say so. That is escalation, not disagreement. And notice Daniel: three weeks of caregiving is a reason to tell the social worker he may need more help.

This case is invented for teaching. It is not based on a real person.

Practice it out loud

Try the conversation “The 3 a.m. call”: Practise the call to the hospice line and the hand-off. An invented person speaks, you answer in your own words, and you see which of their needs you met. It runs in your browser and nothing is sent anywhere. Start this practice or see all six.

Check what you took in

Six questions. Answer, then check. The reasoning under each one is the real lesson.

1. You are privately engaged by a family whose mother is on home hospice. How should your observations usually reach the hospice team?
Why

Answer: b. The interdisciplinary group reviews the plan of care (at least every 15 days under the hospice rules), usually without an outside doula. The family is the team’s partner in the plan, so it is the natural channel, and with consent and an agreed channel you can speak directly. You do not write in the clinical record, and going straight to the medical director skips the nurse who coordinates care.

2. In your SBAR-lite hand-off, what replaces the clinical “Assessment”?
Why

Answer: c. Assessment in SBAR is a clinical judgment, which a doula is not trained or permitted to make. Even a labelled guess can steer a busy clinician. What the family is saying and feeling is real information the team needs, and it is not a diagnosis. Suggesting a medicine is outside scope.

3. A family asks you to “tell the nurse to increase the dose.” What is the best response?
Why

Answer: a. The distress is urgent and belongs with the clinician. Relaying a dose request makes you the messenger of a medication recommendation, and reassuring them the dose is enough is itself clinical advice. Help the family speak, describe what you saw, and ask for the nurse’s attention.

4. At a nursing home, you see a resident on hospice left soiled for hours with bruises you cannot explain. The family is not reachable. What fits best?
Why

Answer: d. Suspected neglect is a safety concern, and reporting it is not overstepping. The hospice and facility both have reporting duties; the ombudsman program resolves problems for residents; Adult Protective Services takes reports. Examining and interpreting injuries is clinical work, and public posting breaks privacy and does not protect the resident.

5. You are fluent in the family’s language. The doctor arrives to talk about stopping dialysis and asks if you can interpret. What should you do?
Why

Answer: b. A qualified interpreter renders everything accurately and neutrally. Federal civil rights rules for health programs, as HHS described them in 2024, limit reliance on accompanying adults. “Summarising gently” is the exact failure an interpreter is trained to avoid, and it would put your judgment between the family and a major decision.

6. You disagree with a hospice nurse’s plan for night-time agitation. The nurse has heard the family, explained the plan, and the person is safe. What now?
Why

Answer: c. The clinical team owns clinical decisions. Once a concern is heard and answered and no one is unsafe, stepping back protects the family’s trust in their team. If the problem continues, that is new information: help the family call back or use the chain of command. Undermining the plan or improvising your own is how outside helpers lose their place at the bedside.

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Where this comes from

Federal rules above describe what hospices, hospitals and nursing homes must do; they do not name end-of-life doulas. State laws on witnesses, mandated reporting and scope differ; check your own state. Example phrases are illustrations, not scripts.

This training is education, not a credential. Finishing it does not certify, license or accredit anyone, and it does not qualify anyone for any job or payment. A doula is a non-clinical helper and does not give medical, nursing, legal, tax or financial advice. Quality Death has not vetted every program or organization named here. In crisis or thinking about suicide, call or text 988. In an emergency, call 911.